ABOUT ME:

My name is Iga and I'm an Integrative Counsellor based in Bexhill (East Sussex) a registered member of the BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy) and an accredited member of NCPS (The National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society).​​​​ I offer in-person counselling in Bexhill-on-Sea as well as online therapy for adults across the UK and Europe.

I believe that meaningful change happens through human connection. At the heart of my work is the therapeutic relationship, a space where you can feel heard, accepted, and understood without judgement or pressure to be anything other than yourself.

People often come to therapy because they're tired of simply getting through each day. They may have spent years putting others first, coping on the surface while struggling underneath, or wondering why life feels harder than it seems to for everyone else. My role isn't to tell you who you should be, but to help you understand yourself more deeply, make sense of your experiences, and support you in creating lasting change at a pace that feels right for you.

My Experience

Over the years, I've had the privilege of supporting adults from many different backgrounds, professions, and walks of life. While every person's story is unique, many of the people I work with appear capable and resilient on the outside but privately feel anxious, overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or disconnected from themselves. Therapy offers a space to slow down, make sense of these experiences, and begin to understand the patterns that may be keeping them stuck.

I frequently work with adults in their 30s and 40s who are balancing careers, caregiving responsibilities, relationship challenges, life transitions, and growing self-awareness. Many come to therapy because they want more than simply coping strategies, they want to understand themselves more deeply and create lasting change.

Supporting Professionals, Creatives and High Achievers

My clinical experience includes supporting people experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, chronic stress, burnout, grief, low self-esteem, perfectionism, people-pleasing, and relationship difficulties. I've worked with professionals across a wide range of sectors, including charities, technology, academia, media, healthcare (including the NHS), and the creative industries.

Although each person's circumstances are different, I've found that many people share a common experience: they have spent years coping, achieving, or caring for others while quietly neglecting their own emotional needs. Together, we explore not only the challenges you're facing now but also the deeper patterns and experiences that may have shaped them.

Neurodiversity-Affirmative Practice

A significant part of my work is supporting neurodivergent adults, including people who are formally diagnosed as well as those who are self-identifying or exploring whether ADHD or autism may help explain their experiences. Many of my clients discover their neurodivergence later in life, often after years of masking, feeling different, or believing they simply needed to "try harder."

As a neurotypical counsellor, I combine professional training in neurodiversity-affirmative practice with personal experience of living alongside neurodivergent family members. This has deepened my understanding of masking, sensory overwhelm, burnout, rejection sensitivity, and the emotional impact of spending years feeling misunderstood. My aim is to provide a space where you don't have to hide parts of yourself. Together, we work towards greater self-understanding, self-compassion, and a way of living that feels more sustainable and authentic.

Women's Wellbeing

I also have a particular interest in supporting women experiencing burnout alongside thyroid conditions, perimenopause, and menopause. Hormonal changes can affect mood, anxiety, energy levels, confidence, concentration, and relationships, yet many women feel these experiences are misunderstood or dismissed.

Therapy can offer space to explore the emotional impact of these changes alongside the other demands of life, helping you reconnect with yourself with greater compassion rather than self-criticism.

Grief and Loss

Between 2022 and 2025, I volunteered as a bereavement counsellor at St Michael's Hospice in St Leonards-on-Sea, supporting people living with grief following the death of a loved one, including those experiencing complex or long-term grief.

This work reinforced my belief that grief does not follow a timeline. Loss can arise through bereavement, relationship endings, changes in health, identity, fertility, work, or other significant life transitions. Rather than something we simply "move on" from, grief is often something we gradually learn to carry while finding meaning and connection again.

Cultural Awareness

Having lived, travelled, and worked in different countries and cultures, I understand that our upbringing, language, family values, and cultural experiences all shape how we understand ourselves and express our emotions. I bring curiosity and cultural sensitivity to this aspect of my work and welcome conversations about identity, belonging, migration, and navigating different cultural expectations.

I am bilingual in English and Polish.

Before Becoming a Therapist

Before training as a counsellor, I worked in both corporate and creative environments, including running my own business. Those experiences gave me first-hand insight into the pressures of demanding careers, self-employment, uncertainty, balancing multiple responsibilities, and the challenge of trying to meet everyone's expectations while losing sight of your own needs.

These experiences continue to inform my work today, helping me understand the realities many clients face while bringing both empathy and practicality into the therapy room.

Iga Sielenko - photo of me in Beachy Head

Beyond the Therapy Room​​

My journey into counselling is deeply personal. Like many people, I've experienced times when life felt overwhelming and finding my way forward wasn't straightforward. Those experiences, together with my professional training, have shaped the therapist I am today. They continue to remind me how important it is to have a space where you can feel genuinely heard, understood, and accepted.

One of the greatest privileges of this work is witnessing people reconnect with themselves. Seeing someone move out of survival mode, begin to trust themselves again, and create a life that feels more meaningful is something I never take for granted. It's a constant reminder of our capacity for growth and change, even when things have felt stuck for a long time.

Outside of the therapy room, I'm endlessly curious about what makes us human. You'll usually find a growing stack of psychology books on my bedside table, alongside books on attachment, neuroscience, creativity, and personal development.

Travel is another passion of mine. I love discovering new places, experiencing different cultures, and seeing the world through different perspectives. These experiences continue to deepen my appreciation of the many ways people live, connect, and make sense of their lives.

Creativity also plays an important role in my own wellbeing. Whether it's art, music, film, photography, reading, spending time by the sea, or simply being in nature, I value the moments that help me slow down, stay grounded, and reconnect with myself.

Qualifications and training:

I hold a Diploma in Integrative Therapeutic Counselling​. It’s a BACP approved qualification that allows me to practice safely and ethically in the UK.

Some of my recent ongoing training and continued learning includes:

  • Trauma informed practitioner certificate

  • IFS - Healing complex trauma with Dr Frank Anderson (+ various IFS training)

  • Complex Trauma Certification Training Level 1 & 2 (CCTP/CCTP-II) with Janina Fisher

  • Mental health and the body - treating trauma​

  • Trauma and the body - dissociation and somatisation

  • Perinatal mental health and birth trauma

  • Extensive bereavement, grief and loss training

  • Working with childhood bereavement and anticipatory grief

  • Working with shame

  • Anxiety

  • Attachment

  • Creative counselling (I am a member of the Creative Counsellors community)

  • Burnout from an autistic and ADHD perspective

  • Understanding AuDHD 

  • Self-harm and suicide ideation

  • Working with children and young people - Place2Be

  • Mindfulness training

  • Hakomi

  • Other qualifications: MSc Economics (2007) - University of Gdansk

As a registered member of the BACP, I follow their code of ethics and practice. I receive regular supervision and invest in regular Continuous Professional Development. I have Professional Indemnity and Liability Insurance and I’m registered with the Information Commissioner’s Office, ref: ZB756905. I hold a current Enhanced DBS.

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