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Writer's pictureIga Sielenko

ADHD and burnout

ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) and burnout often go hand in hand. People with ADHD are particularly susceptible to burnout due to the challenges they face with attention regulation, executive function, and emotional dysregulation. When these struggles collide with high demands, overwork, or overwhelming stimuli, burnout can set in more quickly and intensely. Understanding how ADHD interacts with burnout can help you take proactive steps to manage both and prevent further exhaustion.


"ADHD burnout has unique challenges because it’s often caused by prolonged mental exhaustion from managing ADHD symptoms and trying to meet neurotypical standards. This can lead to intense feelings of frustration, shame, or hopelessness".


ADHD and Burnout: How They Relate


  1. Constant Mental Overload: People with ADHD often have trouble focusing and completing tasks efficiently, leading to a sense of mental overload. Constantly switching between tasks, forgetting things, and feeling like you’re not meeting expectations can drain energy. This can be especially taxing over time, potentially leading to burnout.


  2. Difficulty with Time Management and Organization: ADHD often involves problems with time management, planning, and prioritizing tasks. This can create a situation where someone is always behind on work or personal responsibilities, increasing stress and feelings of inadequacy. This stress, when it accumulates, can lead to burnout.


  3. Emotional Dysregulation: Many people with ADHD experience emotional ups and downs, which can amplify stress. They may feel frustrated, anxious, or overwhelmed more easily, especially in environments with high demands. This emotional volatility can contribute to burnout, making it harder to cope with daily challenges.


  4. Hyperfocus and Exhaustion: While ADHD is often characterized by an inability to focus, many people with ADHD also experience periods of hyperfocus, where they become intensely absorbed in an activity. Hyperfocusing can be productive, but it can also lead to exhaustion if it causes them to neglect self-care or overwork without breaks, eventually leading to burnout.


  5. Increased Sensitivity to Stress: People with ADHD may be more sensitive to stress, which can amplify feelings of frustration and exhaustion. The constant mental effort of managing ADHD symptoms, combined with external pressures, can contribute to burnout more quickly than it might in someone without ADHD.


    A stressed person


    Signs of Burnout in People with ADHD


    The symptoms of burnout can overlap with or be exacerbated by the symptoms of ADHD. Common signs of burnout in people with ADHD include:


    • Mental fatigue: Feeling mentally exhausted, even after a good night’s sleep.

    • Decreased productivity: A noticeable drop in performance at work, school, or in other responsibilities.

    • Increased irritability or emotional reactivity: Feeling more easily frustrated, anxious, or overwhelmed.

    • Lack of motivation: A significant loss of interest in activities that were once enjoyable or fulfilling.

    • Cognitive overload: Difficulty processing or making decisions, leading to indecision or procrastination.

    • Physical symptoms: Sleep disturbances, headaches, and a general sense of being "burned out" physically.


Here are some strategies that may help:


1. Accept ADHD-Specific Needs and Adjust Expectations

- People with ADHD often face different energy cycles and need more breaks and recovery time. Allow yourself to meet your needs without judgment.

- Recognize that ADHD burnout is real, and it’s okay if your brain works differently from others’. Try to replace self-criticism with self-compassion, focusing on what works best for you.


2. Build Routines That Work with ADHD, Not Against It

- Traditional routines can feel restrictive. Instead, try creating flexible routines that accommodate your fluctuating energy and focus levels.

- Break down your day into manageable chunks. Use timers, alarms, or reminders to help maintain some structure without feeling overwhelmed.


3. Use Tools to Minimize Cognitive Overload

- Externalize memory demands by using ADHD-friendly tools like apps, calendars, whiteboards, or sticky notes to track tasks and deadlines.

- Consider using tools like the Pomodoro Technique, which encourages working in short bursts with frequent breaks, reducing the likelihood of mental fatigue.


4. Prioritize Physical and Mental Rest

- ADHD brains can get overstimulated easily, so make sure to schedule downtime to “unplug.” This could be quiet time with no screens or practicing mindfulness.

- Find low-stimulation activities that help you relax, such as listening to calming music, taking a quiet walk, or doing a soothing hobby.


5. Create Low-Stakes Moments for Fun and Enjoyment

- ADHD brains thrive on novelty and stimulation, so allowing time for hobbies or activities that bring you joy can help recharge you.

- Choose activities you can fully engage in without worrying about productivity, like creative pursuits, taking a walk or playing with pets/


6. Find ADHD-Specific Support or Community

- Talking to others who understand ADHD can be incredibly validating and help reduce feelings of isolation. Consider joining ADHD support groups, either online or in person.

- If possible, work with an ADHD coach or therapist who can offer strategies that align with how your brain works.


7. Use Compassionate Self-Talk to Combat Shame

- ADHD burnout can sometimes lead to self-critical thoughts like “Why can’t I just do this?” or “I should be able to handle this.” Practicing self-compassion is key.

- Try using kind, encouraging language with yourself, as you would with a friend. Remind yourself that ADHD impacts energy and focus differently, and there’s nothing “wrong” with you.


8. Adjust Your Work Environment

- If you’re able, talk with your manager or HR about flexible accommodations, such as deadlines spaced out more realistically or quieter workspaces.

- Use ADHD-friendly productivity tools, such as noise-canceling headphones, task management apps, or a physical timer to reduce distractions.


9. Focus on Small, Achievable Goals

- Break tasks into the smallest possible steps, making it easier to start without feeling overwhelmed. Checking off these small steps can create positive momentum.

- Celebrate small victories, no matter how minor they may seem. Acknowledging progress, no matter how small, can help counter burnout-related discouragement.


10. Engage in Body-Doubling or Task-Supporting Environments

- Many people with ADHD find it easier to stay focused with another person present, even if they're not actively helping. This is known as “body doubling.”

- Try working alongside a friend, coworker, or virtual support buddy. Even just being around others can sometimes ease task-related stress.


11. Give Yourself Space to Recover at Your Own Pace

- ADHD burnout doesn’t go away overnight. Recognize that your recovery might take time, and that’s okay.

- Focus on adding more restful, joyful activities gradually as your energy allows. Recovery may be slow, but small efforts count.


Remember, ADHD burnout is a real and valid experience. Giving yourself time, grace, and the tools that work for you can make a difference in recovery.

Managing both ADHD and burnout is an ongoing process, but with the right support and strategies, it’s possible to find balance and regain energy. If you feel like your burnout became severe or persistent, please do reach out - I would love to work with you.




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